Showing posts with label 2020. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 2020. Show all posts

Thursday, December 31, 2020

Gratitude IMHO

This year has not gone the way that I planned. But it probably hasn't gone the way for all of you either right? There are many things that I miss such as traveling, dining out, getting together with friends, going to church and breathing freely without a mask. But I realized that the core things, the things I can't live without, the things I appreciate and love the most, I was able to get in abundance. Through the confinement, disappointment and loss, there is still much to be thankful for. 

1. FAITH

Throughout this crazy year where things were so unexpected and we can never plan for anything before state and county restrictions change it,  I was thankful that God never changes. He is always the same: faithful, loving and true. Knowing God gives us Hope. Hope for a better future.  He is always there for us. We just need to go to Him. And Trust Him. As we embark on a new endeavor (Matthew starting his own business January 5), we have great faith that God will provide for our family in all that we need. 

We have made new friends at a new church (gracechurchfremont.org) and have been encouraged through the friendships and challenged through the sermons. Matthew and I have also been meeting with our former pastor weekly as he teaches us how to interpret and understand God's Word which has been an enlightening experience!

 

2. FAMILY  

I don't think the four of us have spent so much time together under one roof ever! Working at home; schooling at home, eating all our meals at home.. HOME is where our heart is at and that is so true. I am thankful that both of my girls had virtual schooling this semester. Both were able to finish well academically and Emily also tutored her sister when needed. She also had the time to help me with some graphic design projects and start her own small business:  dustbunniesandco on Etsy. 

Even though we have not seen our extended family as often as we would have liked, I am thankful that everyone is safe and healthy and local.

And ZOOM gives us the opportunity to connect with anyone, anywhere, anytime. We have reconnected with family in Hong Kong, Vancouver, Washington, New York, SoCAL and throughout the Bay Area.


3. FRIENDS

As I miss connection with others outside of my family, the pandemic does not prohibit you from connecting with others. I reconnected with my high school friends; friends I worked with 30 years ago in advertising and in teaching; and friends from the first church I attended in Oakland when I was single! And when SIP guidelines eased, I squeezed in a few in-person meetings a few times with old and new friends. 


4. FOOD

I have not cooked this much in my life! Matthew got me a Ninja air-fryer and I put it and my InstaPot to work! I so appreciate the ease that both appliances offer in making quick and tasty dishes. My most intricate was making beef pho in the Instapot,  

5. FITNESS

I am so thankful for the MOTR to keep me active at home. With the daily Pilates Zoom classes, I had the opportunity to continue working out with some great instructors and even more awesome friends. We have not seen each other in person since March but I am so thankful we can see each other early each morning at 7am on the TV!

6. FOSTERING

In the 9-1/2 months that we have been SIPing, Emily had the opportunity to foster eight more bunnies and was able to write for House Rabbit Society's (where she gets the rabbits to foster) bi-annual journal. We are thankful for the opportunity to care for these creatures many of whom had illness' or injuries that they were healing from when we cared for them. All of them have been adopted into forever families except our current bun, Crimson (pictured lower right). One of the best rewards of fostering is to be in contact with the adopters! We love seeing how their buns are doing in their new homes! You can follow Emily's bunnies on IG@fosterbunnymama


As you reflect on the past year, I hope that you find many things you are thankful for and know that God exists, He loves you and has a plan for you.

Tuesday, December 1, 2020

2020 Messenger

Volume 25 Issue 1 2020

2020 has been one whopper of a year, hasn’t it? Definitely one that we never would have imagined (maybe in one of my Young Adult books)!

At times we felt disappointment, sadness, anger, frustration and pain when we focused on the loss. Yet there were also times of joy, peace, and blessing when we focused on the gain. Know that God is here with us and desires for us to come to Him especially when times are hard. 

"For you are my hiding place; you protect me from trouble. You surround me with songs of victory. The Lord says. "I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you. Do not be a senseless horse or mule that needs a bit and bridle to keep under control. Many sorrows come to the wicked, but unfailing love surrounds those who trust the Lord.. " Psalm 32:7-10

May you know Jesus is the reason for the season. Merry Christmas!

What were your losses and gains for this year? Would love to hear from you. Comment below.


Here are each of our Top 5 Losses and Gains this year of Shelter-In-Place. 
Celebrated her 20th Birthday in Sept.
EMILY (20 yrs)
Loss
5. Miss volunteering at House Rabbit Society
4. No Alaskan cruise with cousins
3. Lost my room at home to my sister
2. Foster bunny Graham passed away due to megacolon
1. Missing a year of in person college schooling, along with missing college friends and events

Gain
5. Learned new baking skills ex: bolo bao, Bavarian cream banana cheesecake, sponge cake 
4. Added more crafting hobbies ex: macrame, cross stitching, punch needle, digital portraits
3. Started In home lash lift service
2. Fostering new bunnies (many that needed medication or healing from surgery) and seeing them get adopted
1. Lots of time to spend with family
HANNAH (17 yrs)
Loss
5. Lost my bed to my sister (I’m sleeping on the floor)
4. No relaxing summer due to AP summer homework and SAT prep
3. Track & Field season cancelled after one meet
2. Cancelled summer cruise to Alaska with my cousins
1.  Never got the chance to perform & compete in Choir competition at Disneyland with friends

Gain
5. Got a new smile after 23 months with braces
4. Still had a memorable choir trip (minus the competition) and an early departure back home
3. Made lots of new recipes with my sister
2. Started my driving hours in lower than usual traffic conditions
1. Hanging out with my sister for nine months plus getting free tutoring
My Girls Accountability Group - during SIP meet weekly on zoom and once in person
CEZANNE
Loss
5. Losing the opportunity to watch Hannah's school choir compete at Disneyland and to see Hannah compete in Track & Field in her sophomore year.
4. Full House 24/7: No longer having a quiet empty house for myself during the day.
3. Not being able to dine at our favorite restaurants.
2. Not having my hair colored to its ’natural’ color
1. Having to cancel our planned Alaskan Cruise with family and our Vancouver trip.

Gain
5. Bible Study: Matthew and I meet weekly with our former pastor to learn how to better understand and interpret God's Word.
4. New Church: Met some wonderful new friends through online prayer meetings.
3. Exercise-At-Home: Bought a MOTR and started attending Zoom classes for a full body workout.
2. Emily Home: Being at home, Emily was able to design some graphic projects for me and tutor her sister in some difficult subjects.
1. Reconnecting: Being able to reconnect with many friends and family (63 of them); and for my girls accountability group, weekly Zoom meetings (35x so far) vs our usual 2x/year meetings before SIP.
Celebrating his 50th this October
MATTHEW
Loss
5. Commute: Lost a 2 hour round trip commute and replaced it with a 1 minute round trip commute.
4. Quiet work environment: Our home doesn’t have a lot of space for 4 people to work/go to school at the same time.
3.Coworkers: Several of my coworkers were laid off at the beginning of the pandemic. My team shrank from 5 to 2.
2. Exercise: Our lunchtime basketball group hasn’t played ball since March.
1. Job: My department at work is being shut down. Everyone in my department will be out of a job at the end of the year.

Gain
5. Meeting new church friends via Zoom.
4. New in-house hair stylists (Emily & Hannah).
3. New opportunity to start my own architecture practice.
2. Regular zoom meetings with friends.
1. Extended family time since Emily is home from college.

OTHER HIGHLIGHTS OF THE YEAR:
January- Visiting Apple headquarters with the Ngs
February - Visited FRIENDS Pop-Up @ AT&T with Sus
March - Move Emily out of CBU dorm due to SIP
June - One-day outing to Half Moon Bay w/ Lees
June - Graduations: Faith Lee (HS) and Marissa Sam (8th Grade)
July - Climbed Mission Peak
Sept - Extended Ma Family Day Trip to Bodega Bay
Nov - Celebrated Hannah's 17th Birthday at Pier 39
Nov - Distributed 139 bags of groceries to needy families for Hearty Harvest at Grace Church
Nov - Ma Family Thanksgiving- outdoors, masked, distanced
Nov- Ow Family Thanksgiving (minus my parents and sister's family)